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Sulaiman Nasir's avatar

You know what - You said everything in this essay that even a book can't convey. From the stage, truth does not stay open. It must pass through a tunnel — a narrowing passage, a corridor where echoes distort, where shadows lengthen. A tunnel is both protection and constraint. What goes in as full-bodied truth emerges altered by the journey: compressed, reshaped, sometimes broken, sometimes sharpened. This is what life is all about.

Let's continue this discussion as a continuous passage of learning and living.

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Natalie Ihli's avatar

Thanks for the wise words!

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Benthall Slow Travel's avatar

Your mom sounds like the original Beauty Voyager—long before anyone named it that. The way you describe her reminds me that beauty isn’t optional; it’s survival fuel. I love how you tied it back to both science and soul—dopamine meets dollhouses, flow states meet felt angels.

For me, slow travel has taught the same lesson: beauty isn’t just in the Louvre or Lake Louise, it’s in the stubborn flower through the sidewalk crack, the shadows at 5:17 PM, the way someone takes care setting a café table. Paying attention isn’t frivolous—it’s how we stay alive to the world and to each other.

Thanks for this reminder. It makes me want to keep noticing, keep creating, and keep scattering little ripples of wonder wherever I land next… and maybe even fold my napkins into swans one of these days.

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